Mike Bernhardt

AUTHOR • Poet • TRAVEL WRITER

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Confirming Anecdotes with Evidence

The novel I’m writing about the Moser family is closely based on the truth. That’s perfect for me as someone whose experience has been mostly narrative non-fiction. I try to learn what really happened, and then turn it into a scene that might be fictional but at least has elements of the truth.

Before she died in 1989, Edith had begun writing a memoir for her children.  She said that a week before Kristallnacht, her father had returned from the U.S. after trying to get visas for the family to leave Germany.

I know now that because she was only thirteen during the alleged visit, she probably didn’t understand the complexities of immigration in 1938—there was no way for him to speed it up. But perhaps he was able to connect with people who could help improve their chances of actually getting the visas they wanted.

I’ve never found records of that trip in records available through Ancestry. But in the stash of papers I found in my father-in-law’s closet, I discovered this receipt. It proves that he really was in New York in October 1938. But much more valuable than the confirmation of his travel was the fodder it provided for my novel: Ernst brought jewelry with him for safekeeping in a New York bank vault, so that the Nazis couldn’t steal it from them later.

He would have had to smuggle it out of Germany—Nazi customs would have searched his luggage and confiscated it before his departure. So I’ve imagined Margaret sewing it into his overcoat, and his nervousness as his luggage is searched before he’s allowed to board the ship.

Researching WWII Lives

Both for my Hidden Compass stories and for my upcoming novel about the same people, deep research has been essential, exciting, and exhausting. I thought it would be cool to share some of what I’m learning along the way.

One incredible source has been a stash of letters and documents I discovered, literally in a shoebox, in my father-in-law’s closet. The box belonged to my wife’s late mother Edith, who died in 1989, before I met the family.

Today I translated several letters sent between teenaged Edith, who was hidden in the south of France, and Margaret, her mother  who was a refugee in England. If you want to understand this situation better, read my latest Hidden Compass essay.

The letter you see on the left was sent via the International Red Cross, which limited a sender to only 25 words. This one struck me because of the first line: “Address of loved ones in Theresienstadt.”

Theresienstadt was a concentration camp in Czechoslovakia, near the border with Germany. Tens of thousands of Jewish prisoners died there, including Edith’s grandfather Gustav Heinemann, in December, 1942. That opened a mystery for me—if  Edith’s grandparents had been deported, how could her mother have received an address?

I’ve learned that the Nazis promoted Theresienstadt as a sort of retirement community for prominent older Jews (Gustav had been a respected member of  Hannover’s judicial council). Rather than be deported to Poland, they would have been told, they could buy a place to live at Thereseinstadt. It was a self-governing village. I imagine it sounded like a wonderful alternative to what they likely knew was happening by then in places like Auschwitz.

The Heinemanns would have signed a phony contract, paid the money, and notified Margaret of their new address.

In reality it was a cruel, horrible joke. On the order of the SS, a governing Jewish council organized concerts, lectures, and art exhibits. But these were designed to maintain a facade of “the good life” for people whose deportation could have drawn scrutiny from the outside world.  The Heinemanns had moved to a ghetto designed to passively kill tens of thousands of old people through malnutrition and disease. They arrived in September, 1942 and less than three months later, Gustav was dead (his wife died there in 1944).

Here is the part that was even more heartbreaking as I thought about Margaret as a character in my novel: The date she wrote the letter to Edith, just under the note itself, is October 15, 1943. By the time she received her parents’ supposed address, her father had been dead for nearly a year.

 

Trusting the Smuggler’s Route

I have a new essay published by Hidden Compass!  Like my award-winning essay The Tides of War, it is drawn from the saga of my wife’s family during World War II.

This story concerns my wife’s mother, who was hidden in southern France with a hundred other Jewish children. In 1943, after her brother was arrested and deported, she embarked on a harrowing escape to Switzerland with the help of women who risked their lives to save her.

Trusting the Smuggler’s Route describes that escape, and it follows Yvonne and me as we retraced her footsteps during a trip to France last year.

Enjoy! And if you feel inclined to contribute to the patronage campaign you find there, I’d really appreciate it! Whatever you give supports both me and Hidden Compass.

 

The Tides of War wins Lowell Thomas Award!

My story The Tides of War, which was published in Hidden Compass last year, won first place in the the Lowell Thomas Travel Journalism Awards Special-Purpose Travel category! Sponsored by the Society of American Travel Writers Foundation, the Lowell Thomas Awards are probably the most prestigious in the field of travel journalism. I feel truly honored. Here is the comment from the judges:

The discovery of a hand-bound book of preserved seaweed launches this journey through history that connects Mike Bernhardt’s family to “The Tides of War.” A question from his wife — “Why do you care so much about what happened to my relatives?” — resonates throughout the story as he peels back the tragedy of her grandmother’s life and losses. His attention to detail transports the reader through this poignant tale. It is an unexpected and moving travel experience.

The Tides of War, tracking WWII refugees and those who honored them

I am truly thrilled, and honored, to have a story I wrote published in the latest issue of a magazine called Hidden Compass. The Tides of War is about what happened to my wife’s grandparents AFTER they escaped from Nazi Germany and thought they were out of harm’s way, and about our journey to learn more about it, including travel to Ireland and the Isle of Man. It combines two things that are very much a part of my life: travel, and honoring grief. I hope you like it!

The Tides of War

The Tides of War, tracking WWII refugees and those who honored them

I am truly thrilled, and honored, to have a story I wrote published in the latest issue of a magazine called Hidden Compass. The Tides of War is about what happened to my wife’s grandparents AFTER they escaped from Nazi Germany and thought they were out of harm’s way, and about our journey to learn more about it, including travel to Ireland and the Isle of Man. It combines two things that are very much a part of my life: travel, and honoring grief. I hope you like it!

The Tides of War

Sadie Beyl and I Discuss Grief

Sadie Beyl, founder of  From Mourning to Light, hosted a Grief Summit in October 2022, and she interviewed me as one of her guest experts. We discussed my book Voices of the Grieving Heart, but we also spoke about something that’s rarely discussed: After our life partner has died, and after all of the time and effort it takes to grieve and keep living, how do we know when it’s the right time to consider a new relationship?

You can learn more about Sadie here.

Blowin’ In the Wind

When I write about travel, I like to focus on what really hits me. Writing (and hopefully reading) those stories is far more enjoyable than listicles or travelogues.

During our three days in Monteverde, Costa Rica, what hit me—in the face, 24 hours a day—was howling wind and sometimes, eye-stinging rain. I expected some gentle rain, and we had that too; after all, it’s a cloud forest. But the constant, window-rattling, 20-25 mph wind was so loud in our hotel room that we had to visit the farmacia and buy earplugs so we could sleep. …

Yes, They Wear Underwear

“Do Amish men wear underwear?”

In my mind, I closed my eyes and slapped my forehead in disbelief at the question. I’m always amazed at what people will ask when they’re learning about other cultures.

Yvonne and I took a guided tour of the Amish Farm and House in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania. Our guide, who was Mennonite, was knowledgeable about the history of the Amish and Mennonite communities in America and gave solid answers to a wide swath of questions. She stared at the man for only a moment before answering. …